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Diwali

Every house is decorated with flowers and colors with lights. The kitchen is filled with snacks and sweets. Everyone is wearing new clothes and going to their neighbors and relatives' houses to meet and greet them with sweets, crackers and talks. After a long time of working days the festival season comes up like fully relaxing holiday. You enjoy the every moment of the same with family and friends. The Lord Ram with his wife Sita and brother Lakshman  came to Ayodhya this time when every house was lighten up and decorated to greet them. This is all I know about Diwali as I see. There are many other stories unheard but what I see here is the happiness with smile at everyone's face while enjoying the crackers, sweets, colorful patterns designed at entrance of home called 'Rangoli' and time spent with the people whom they are not able meet often in their busy life.  Prosperity is what asked for in these days in prayers and I think the above given examples are the symbols ...

CAN I DO ANYTHING?

હા તો પછી કેમ હું જે કરવા માંગું છું તે નથી કરી શકતો કારણકે આપણે કંઈ કરવા માંગતા જ નથી. હા આપણે તો બસ બધું મેળવવા માંગીએ છીએ કંઈ કરવા નહીં. સાદી વાત છે પણ આપણે પણ આળસુ જ રહીએ છીએ. નાનપણથી જ એ શીખ્યા છીએ કે કામ એટલે કંટાળો. કેટલા લોકો સ્કૂલે કંઈક નવું શીખવાની આશાએ ઉત્સાહ સાથે જતાં હતાં? કોણ કોણ એવું માને છે કે એના દ્વારા થઇ રહેલ કામથી દુનિયામાં ફરક પડે છે? કારણકે સાચે ને તો ફરક પડે જ છે. ભલે તમે માનો કે નહીં પણ કરવું કંઈ નથી અને જોઈએ છે બધું જ પણ હવે એક અગત્યની વાત. તમે આજકાલ ઘણા બધાને જોશો બોર (Bored) થતા અને ડિપ્રેશ્ડ(Depressed) રહેતા. આ બધા મહદ અંશે એ જ હશે જે આળસુ ના પીડ હશે અને સાચે ને એમને કંઈ ખાસ કરવાનું નહીં આવતું હોય. કદાચ જાણતા હશે તો કહેવા ખાતર કામ કરતા હશે તો ના બરાબર. મેં એકવાર પ્રયોગ કર્યો. શાંતિથી બેઠો અને વિચાર્યું કે જો હું અબજોપતિ બની જવું અને એટલા બધા પૈસા મળી જાય પછી શું? મેં એને અલગ-અલગ રીતે ખર્ચ કરવાનુ વિચાર્યું. મોટુ આલિશાન ઘર બધી જ સગવડો વાળો, દુનિયા આખી ફરવાની, પાર્ટીઓ કરવાની, પોતાનો મનગમતો બિઝનેસ કરવાનો , જે મનમાં આવે તે ખાવુ, જોવું, ફરવું, પછી લગભગ હું ફક્...

Don't Think, Just Do.

If you have many desires and problems also here is sure short solution. It may not be fully correct still it is good enough to solve some of your problems. Start writing about your problem and desires take a pen and paper right now. Start with desires. Add "why?" after every desire. Get answer for it. Repeat the process until you get the answer the " happiness ". Your last reason for any desired must be happiness otherwise it is not your desire but the need of the greed you got from the others. Now start writing about your problems. After you list down all your problems start categorising them. The category should be : 1. 'cannot be solved' 2. 'need not to be solved';and 3. 'can be solved' You will understand that now you have to focus on only those which you can solve or which need your attention more. You will now also understand that you have to stop thinking about those problems which you cannot deal with. Now you will be more fo...

World Book Day special

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In 1455, Gutenberg printed his first book, a Latin  Bible . In 1475 Englishman William Caxton produced the first book printed in English, The  Recuyell  of the Historyes of Troye. The  Diamond Sutra  is the world's oldest known printed book. It was 'made' in AD 868. Knowledge part over now feeling part. Take a book you have if it is near. Touch it. Open it. Touch each page. If you are lover of reading and you have your one of the favourite book in your hand you will surely feel what I am telling you about. This is amazing feeling. A friend, guide and love can be A BOOK . It is what will feel your loneliness easily and give you strength also to enter outside "your world" to "the world" with full confidence & courage. People who are book lovers especially the readers are not always introvert but if they are then a good book can make them a confident person who can talk in front of anyone. For me A Book is Silent Talker Friend . W...

Falling for Loving Life

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If you didn't think the title is appropriate then take it as "Falling for Life & Loving it deeply". By the way do you know you are part of life. You Are Life. So at the end you are loving yourself with loving everyone else. How to do that ? Simply difficult. 1 . Start by accepting other (not judging them) 2 . Then accept your incompleteness (you and all are imperfect. accept it.) 3 . Now after this acceptance make a SMILE...... Do you think it is worthless? Think again because as soon as you start smiling the thinking in your mind stop. It happen when you smile actually. Same way when you genuinely laugh the positivity take the control in your mind. 4. Praise the genuine good quality of each person you meet and then also ask them with deep sincerity about any problem if they have. 5. Give and take. Sharing is the best way to live a happy life and if you feel problem in sharing 'Things' then share 'Thoughts'. Beautiful, Helpful, Trustwo...

Hobby (Sunday Story)

If you have hobbies then please don't let it go away due to your work and responsibility. Everyone must give few time to hobbies. I was going to let my hobby of blogging go away for month as I have exams. But now I know that this few minutes of writing is not wasting of my time even if I have exams as it is tonic and motivation for me to do my studies and be fresh and happy. Thinking about the results of the exams may be is more distracting than this hobby. As I start thinking about result whether good or bad but get nothing whereas here I get 100% satisfaction. Focusing on studies instead to think about result is good. Same way to be fresh giving few time to blogging is also good or I would say better. What about you? Bored with routine life? Today is Sunday. Let it be the starting for your old/new hobby and  be more creative, enthusiastic and happily satisfied. Happy Sunday. Note : If liked please comment so I can get that I am going in right direction.   ...

How to improve Memory

The show I watched yesterday telling that we remember the thing that is  attached with strong emotion. Also we remember the photo or visual data more easily than other. As naturally we are built to remember images and situations affecting us emotionally we can do that easily but when it comes to numbers or words ?? We forget many things even though it is easy to remember. From the above data we can see that if we try to conceptually understand the things we have to remember like the topics we study in college or school and also try to emotionally get attached with that; OR in other words if we try to connect the topic with its practical applicability, to attach it with some emotion, we can easily remember that. Let's take example: It is difficult to remember historical dates and names many time. So now if we consider the date & name as story which actually is there already and if it is about king than also attach our self with bravery of King or hatred for him, if he is bad...

How much Far Future you can see ?

One step OR one moment OR one minute. That's it. Not a percent more, not a percent less. We can't see future more than I said above. We can only imagine the future and in that case we can imagine anything but remember "Imagine". It is not truth at all. Still many believe in that imaginary future which make them depressed. Surety of happening something is limited. So let us start focusing on reality. Even though I say much you definitely imagine about future. Now analyze the facts: •You imagine future; •It may/may not happen; •You will be happy/excited/sad/worried/depressed. If you focus on Present then •You do what you should; •No wastage of time; •No depression still happy as you are doing your work. Time is everything you have . Repeat Time is everything you have. Nothing else. So please focus on it. And which time you have? I don't think it is necessary to say that " It is Present / Today / This moment ." Very common. Now adv...

Globalization is Going

Get ready to be National and non-international . You can see that most of the big countries who was pioneer for globalization is now focusing on development of their nation by being anti-international. They are trying to reduce the detrimental effect due to globalization in job, economy, power and influence etc. The trade barriers are coming back. This may happened as there was never equality or balance between the countries trading which is now getting bigger, deeper and unreachable in near and some what far future. I read many news on this in the last few days and today I watched few videos on acceptance of the difference. That how a person should socialize with most different and imperfect person for her/him as it give opportunity of even a dream job she/he wishing for. Also about stop to change other or yourself and start to accept everything as it is first. Be like water who change it self but only as per circumstances needed for the betterment of everyone. The conflict you...

કર્મ

તમારામાંથી  દરેક  વિચારતા  હશે,  ભવિશ્ય વિશે,  ઈચ્છાઓ  વિશે,  મુશ્કેલીઓ  વિશે. બંધ  કરો  વિચારવાનું.  પેપર  અને  પેન પકડો.  પકડો!  અત્યારે  જ.  લખો. તમારી  ઈચ્છા  ભવિશ્ય  માટ...

Wrong Decision

One beautiful event in which one musician met a normal man and in their conversion the man say I also love music. Listening that musician ask naturally, Really ! Then what type of instrument do you play? And suddenly normal guy say that he is talking about how he enjoy it listening and he don't know playing any instrument. Musician after getting that say that then you say 'I like listening music'. Here the small difference can be big one. The situation like this happen to us and more to students. As they start to enjoy watching or listening something they think they will to do that, too. But to watch a movie and to make it, to like acting and doing it is far more different than each other. One you like and other you may not. We all love to use smart phones and different apps in it and get interest in making an app but as soon as we start we can got bored. Choosing wrong career have this also as one of the reason for it. Especially when student independently decide that. ...

Kitchen Peace

Sometimes kitchen can be the best holiday or vacation spot for us. I am not talking about our regular kitchen but another type of kitchen. The kitchen having garden or like that in front of its window, the most of equipment made of wood, stone or metal but which are not looking like modern equipment as if it is 50 years before kitchen. Where you are alone or with your best friend which can be your mom, too. You are making a dish without any worry of mistakes OR hurry of you will be late. There is your favourite song or any light cool music being played in background. And you are in peace of that ,not thinking about outer real world, cooking any dish in your own fun. What do you say? Want to try this Sunday? Then do it. And don't worry if you don't have kitchen as described above or you don't like cooking because you can do book reading, writing, painting or any other thing but one condition us must that you have your peace where no one can disturb you even if they ar...

Sunday Story of "STORY"

The first story in the world was "Told", Second one was may be "Read" & Third and last one is "Seen+Listen". We all know about this even if we ignore it regularly but that " STORY " the telling for which this all paper (in which story is written and read from), radios (from where many stories were told and listened), TVs & Internet (where we daily watch and listen also sometimes read stories) are invented is lost . It is weird that we rarely find a very good story which we want to read, watch or listen again and again. We find so much information and nonsense things but not a beautiful story . That's why may be many people working in TV or other media industry is struggling as they can't able to find the perfect story wanted by audiences/people. Me and many other writers are also struggling to find out best stories. We are able to see some beautiful stories but it is few if we compare the total content given by all med...

Free

What should be free? I think health and education sector should be free for all. Then and then only we can have beautiful world as we want. Any society, state or country can grow only in that environment where all people have equal right on education and health-care services. It is need which is equal to food, clothes and home. May be we should build more school a & hospitals than shopping malls, clubs, different sport's ground and may be temples, too. When we preserve the past and nurture the future than only we will live happily in present . We never should forget that we also wanted exciting and enjoyable education when we were kids and we will need love and care whenever will get old and ill. Remember when you got ill. How did you feel? Don't you wanted to have someone near you to love and care about you and treat you well to make you well from ill. May be as I think, you think and all people start understanding this fact. And now only few schools ...

Sunday Story

15 years old boy playing game in his mobile when her 1 year old sister called her mom as she wanted her nose to be cleaned. The boy asked her mom to give him handkerchief so that he can clean her sister nose. She was in kitchen making dinner. She came with a handkerchief and cleaned the girl's nose telling boy, "If I had to come to give handkerchief why should I not also clean the nose" Boy still having his eyes in mobile phone said, "But I asked you handkerchief so that I can clean her nose" Mom went to kitchen and boy again  without listening or thinking continued his game.

Carpe Diem

How many of us really live today like it is never going to be tomorrow. May be no one and that's why we feel boring and tired. If really it is our last day do we live it like to pass or kill the time. Even we work with the best efforts to get best result and get happy even before knowing the results as we have given our best. Love your family, give everyone a smile, help other and stop worrying. Enjoy every byte of your meal, get relaxed with nature around you, laugh like child and stop being fake. It is easy to say but not easy to be happy everyday with all new energy to live. But this one thought may help us. Past is gone, Future is unknown, You have only TODAY so live it like your best Holiday. You have to do your regular work as it is necessary but we can do it happily if we can get that we don't know about future so dreaming to be happy at future is not good. Be happy now as who know about future. Don't just wait for weekends or festivals to enjoy life and do it ...

Definition of Success

•A person having million dollars as salary but still work till last day of his life. •Another person work in government job and live retired life before even getting actual retirement. •Third person, having good idea of business, established that business and sell it for million dollars few years later and retire at age of 30. Which one you chose ? I may choose " non of the above ". Why? Here the story starts, Everyone want success but never get because of influence of society. Have ever you tried to figure it out the true definition of success ? First of all success is different from the basic needs. Which is now more than food, clothes & home and become health, education ( which should always be the need ) , car, mobile, TV, internet etc. Try to think just once deeply and without remembering anything you have heard about success that " WHAT IS SUCCESS ?" AND " WHY I NEED IT ?" Answer is: It is the happiness. The state of mind of being happ...

Instant Success

No, I am not going to give tips to get instant success instead I am going to request you not run after it. People think if they can't get instant success they got failed. Due to that they stop trying and never get success which they may have in future. They don't see the big picture. You can definitely get failure by not trying anymore or surely get success in future by trying. It may take time of years. Yes, years. As soon as people hear it they decide in mind to discontinue their work. But most of the successful companies/people had it after many years of their starting. Just as we got few instant successful people/companies (out of which many got failed afterwards) we assume it will happen with us, too. Simple thing ignored by many is: You will have to work hard, even harder many times, after success. We think like we succeed instantly and then work like retired person as if business/work will automatically run/done. We hate to work hard without success and make excu...

Idiot Box

I used to watch TV in most of the free time I got in my school days. It was time when internet and computer was not popular in my world. Many parents (Not my mom, lucky me) used to tell their children to read a book instead of watching TV which they usually call idiot box. And then one day Teacher was taking the lecture when a girl, who used to get first rank in each and every exams, stopped teacher from teaching wrong thing about internet. At that time (I don't know about now) 95% of internet usage was done from cables spread in deep sea and on lands of different countries and  continents. Only 5% was done by satellite. The fact was shown by girl in safari magazine. I knew that so agreed with that. Teacher asked me that why I didn't tell that before if I knew that. I replied like nothing but it was class for business administration in which this internet was only sub-part of part of topic so I ignored that. Now the main story here is how did I and only that girl knew this f...

Self confidence

Big topic, don't ? But it is not a topic of article or life. It is part of you. Without that don't you feel incomplete and more than that sad, also lost in journey of life. We easily loose it like keys or glasses. Neglecting self confidence is to neglecting your energy, power, skills and intelligence and also  emotions which is your nature. Who can get something and mostly success in life directly connected with happiness by neglecting confidence. Not believing in yourself or forgetting confidence give you powerful reason to fail. How can you know your strength ? Stop reading and ask yourself. Just by doing something, trying new things and going beyond your imaginary limits. People never should put upper limit for their abilities. That is how you can DISCOVER YOUR NEW ABILITIES giving you more confidence. Confidence never come from outside but come from your believes. That's why successful people say target highest goals. Many think I may can't do that. First...