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Is there any perfect way to be? Is there perfect method available? Whenever I don't achieve the desired goals for my studies I ask this to myself. I used to spend lot of time in planning. Nothing happened. I stopped planning at all. Nothing happened. I tried to be moderate and balance between the planning and execution but no results came. Ultimately the problem was defferent. I stopped focusing on results or desiring about perfect goals but still guilt didn't leave me. I never studied as I wanted. I thought a lot. I was focused on the concious mind more than subconscious mind. No, I am not going to tell you the power of subconscious mind. As it'll be of no use untill you yourself decide to do that. But I want to share one learning from Atomic Habit. We need to make the work so simple to start with that we can't avoid it at all. That's where we first fail. Second reason for the failure is our inability to continue consistently. That's where games and social medi

People find it scary when they realize that they are becoming adult and loosing their childhood with all the innocence, happiness, tension-free Life. But I don't. May be because; 1. I don't realize that adulthood everyone is talking about; 2. I dreamed to become an independent adult which I am in process of becoming; 3. I learnt to live in present with remembering & sometimes missing past 4. I'm still as curious or may be more than as a child 5. I learnt to enjoy what I have & not to worry about what I have not. Whatever's the reason, I find it fascinating that I don't feel like I am getting older. It also amuses me when I find someone whom I assume to be older but find out being younger. Sometimes I forget how old am I. What I meant to say is that the time between this 20s is going like my body paused growing while my Mind is growing rapidly with 2x or 3x speed. Every day I am learning and experiencing a lot new stuff. Also, now at adulthood I a

You may always find happiness and excitement while learning new things but still you will get bored, annoyed and even hate the studies done for marks, degrees and money. As you will not only have to learn but also remember each and every thing from books and also write them as it is to get the marks. At the end you have to study but like me, many can't study for longer period of time or sometimes can't even start it (that's bigger hurdle sometimes that continuing study). Solution for the starting study is to just remember "why you want the degree" and then realising that it will only happen when you will learn and study. Remember learning is more important than study even though we do reverse. For continuing study I recently started using the below technique. I was used to pickup phone after I get bored with reading session of one hour (half sometimes). Instead of doing that try out these techniques. Listen just one song or play piano (any instruments) even from

Fear don't let us do what we want to. I always wanted to change that situation for me. I stopped myself from writing on many topics due to this fear. I was thinking what will people think about me if in the future I will not have same views as I have  now about the topic. I have this behaviour of changing my opinion about some topics due to changes in time, situation and my knowledge regarding that topic and life. I think many will have the same behaviour. The overall experience of life and our subconscious mind affect the thinking of person. And our subconscious mind is programmed to act automatically on many situations which we don't know about and even if we know but are not aware at that time when it's actually performing automatically without our control. This is why even if we decide to do/not do something we fail in it. We can't even fulfill the promise we make to ourselves. We are not always be same as we were before. We will improve. I should instead of saying

Every house is decorated with flowers and colors with lights. The kitchen is filled with snacks and sweets. Everyone is wearing new clothes and going to their neighbors and relatives' houses to meet and greet them with sweets, crackers and talks. After a long time of working days the festival season comes up like fully relaxing holiday. You enjoy the every moment of the same with family and friends. The Lord Ram with his wife Sita and brother Lakshman  came to Ayodhya this time when every house was lighten up and decorated to greet them. This is all I know about Diwali as I see. There are many other stories unheard but what I see here is the happiness with smile at everyone's face while enjoying the crackers, sweets, colorful patterns designed at entrance of home called 'Rangoli' and time spent with the people whom they are not able meet often in their busy life.  Prosperity is what asked for in these days in prayers and I think the above given examples are the symbols

હા તો પછી કેમ હું જે કરવા માંગું છું તે નથી કરી શકતો કારણકે આપણે કંઈ કરવા માંગતા જ નથી. હા આપણે તો બસ બધું મેળવવા માંગીએ છીએ કંઈ કરવા નહીં. સાદી વાત છે પણ આપણે પણ આળસુ જ રહીએ છીએ. નાનપણથી જ એ શીખ્યા છીએ કે કામ એટલે કંટાળો. કેટલા લોકો સ્કૂલે કંઈક નવું શીખવાની આશાએ ઉત્સાહ સાથે જતાં હતાં? કોણ કોણ એવું માને છે કે એના દ્વારા થઇ રહેલ કામથી દુનિયામાં ફરક પડે છે? કારણકે સાચે ને તો ફરક પડે જ છે. ભલે તમે માનો કે નહીં પણ કરવું કંઈ નથી અને જોઈએ છે બધું જ પણ હવે એક અગત્યની વાત. તમે આજકાલ ઘણા બધાને જોશો બોર (Bored) થતા અને ડિપ્રેશ્ડ(Depressed) રહેતા. આ બધા મહદ અંશે એ જ હશે જે આળસુ ના પીડ હશે અને સાચે ને એમને કંઈ ખાસ કરવાનું નહીં આવતું હોય. કદાચ જાણતા હશે તો કહેવા ખાતર કામ કરતા હશે તો ના બરાબર. મેં એકવાર પ્રયોગ કર્યો. શાંતિથી બેઠો અને વિચાર્યું કે જો હું અબજોપતિ બની જવું અને એટલા બધા પૈસા મળી જાય પછી શું? મેં એને અલગ-અલગ રીતે ખર્ચ કરવાનુ વિચાર્યું. મોટુ આલિશાન ઘર બધી જ સગવડો વાળો, દુનિયા આખી ફરવાની, પાર્ટીઓ કરવાની, પોતાનો મનગમતો બિઝનેસ કરવાનો , જે મનમાં આવે તે ખાવુ, જોવું, ફરવું, પછી લગભગ હું ફક્

If you have many desires and problems also here is sure short solution. It may not be fully correct still it is good enough to solve some of your problems. Start writing about your problem and desires take a pen and paper right now. Start with desires. Add "why?" after every desire. Get answer for it. Repeat the process until you get the answer the " happiness ". Your last reason for any desired must be happiness otherwise it is not your desire but the need of the greed you got from the others. Now start writing about your problems. After you list down all your problems start categorising them. The category should be : 1. 'cannot be solved' 2. 'need not to be solved';and 3. 'can be solved' You will understand that now you have to focus on only those which you can solve or which need your attention more. You will now also understand that you have to stop thinking about those problems which you cannot deal with. Now you will be more fo

In 1455, Gutenberg printed his first book, a Latin  Bible . In 1475 Englishman William Caxton produced the first book printed in English, The  Recuyell  of the Historyes of Troye. The  Diamond Sutra  is the world's oldest known printed book. It was 'made' in AD 868. Knowledge part over now feeling part. Take a book you have if it is near. Touch it. Open it. Touch each page. If you are lover of reading and you have your one of the favourite book in your hand you will surely feel what I am telling you about. This is amazing feeling. A friend, guide and love can be A BOOK . It is what will feel your loneliness easily and give you strength also to enter outside "your world" to "the world" with full confidence & courage. People who are book lovers especially the readers are not always introvert but if they are then a good book can make them a confident person who can talk in front of anyone. For me A Book is Silent Talker Friend . W

If you didn't think the title is appropriate then take it as "Falling for Life & Loving it deeply". By the way do you know you are part of life. You Are Life. So at the end you are loving yourself with loving everyone else. How to do that ? Simply difficult. 1 . Start by accepting other (not judging them) 2 . Then accept your incompleteness (you and all are imperfect. accept it.) 3 . Now after this acceptance make a SMILE...... Do you think it is worthless? Think again because as soon as you start smiling the thinking in your mind stop. It happen when you smile actually. Same way when you genuinely laugh the positivity take the control in your mind. 4. Praise the genuine good quality of each person you meet and then also ask them with deep sincerity about any problem if they have. 5. Give and take. Sharing is the best way to live a happy life and if you feel problem in sharing 'Things' then share 'Thoughts'. Beautiful, Helpful, Trustwo

If you have hobbies then please don't let it go away due to your work and responsibility. Everyone must give few time to hobbies. I was going to let my hobby of blogging go away for month as I have exams. But now I know that this few minutes of writing is not wasting of my time even if I have exams as it is tonic and motivation for me to do my studies and be fresh and happy. Thinking about the results of the exams may be is more distracting than this hobby. As I start thinking about result whether good or bad but get nothing whereas here I get 100% satisfaction. Focusing on studies instead to think about result is good. Same way to be fresh giving few time to blogging is also good or I would say better. What about you? Bored with routine life? Today is Sunday. Let it be the starting for your old/new hobby and  be more creative, enthusiastic and happily satisfied. Happy Sunday. Note : If liked please comment so I can get that I am going in right direction.        Suggestion

The show I watched yesterday telling that we remember the thing that is  attached with strong emotion. Also we remember the photo or visual data more easily than other. As naturally we are built to remember images and situations affecting us emotionally we can do that easily but when it comes to numbers or words ?? We forget many things even though it is easy to remember. From the above data we can see that if we try to conceptually understand the things we have to remember like the topics we study in college or school and also try to emotionally get attached with that; OR in other words if we try to connect the topic with its practical applicability, to attach it with some emotion, we can easily remember that. Let's take example: It is difficult to remember historical dates and names many time. So now if we consider the date & name as story which actually is there already and if it is about king than also attach our self with bravery of King or hatred for him, if he is bad

One step OR one moment OR one minute. That's it. Not a percent more, not a percent less. We can't see future more than I said above. We can only imagine the future and in that case we can imagine anything but remember "Imagine". It is not truth at all. Still many believe in that imaginary future which make them depressed. Surety of happening something is limited. So let us start focusing on reality. Even though I say much you definitely imagine about future. Now analyze the facts: •You imagine future; •It may/may not happen; •You will be happy/excited/sad/worried/depressed. If you focus on Present then •You do what you should; •No wastage of time; •No depression still happy as you are doing your work. Time is everything you have . Repeat Time is everything you have. Nothing else. So please focus on it. And which time you have? I don't think it is necessary to say that " It is Present / Today / This moment ." Very common. Now advice

Get ready to be National and non-international . You can see that most of the big countries who was pioneer for globalization is now focusing on development of their nation by being anti-international. They are trying to reduce the detrimental effect due to globalization in job, economy, power and influence etc. The trade barriers are coming back. This may happened as there was never equality or balance between the countries trading which is now getting bigger, deeper and unreachable in near and some what far future. I read many news on this in the last few days and today I watched few videos on acceptance of the difference. That how a person should socialize with most different and imperfect person for her/him as it give opportunity of even a dream job she/he wishing for. Also about stop to change other or yourself and start to accept everything as it is first. Be like water who change it self but only as per circumstances needed for the betterment of everyone. The conflict you

તમારામાંથી  દરેક  વિચારતા  હશે,  ભવિશ્ય વિશે,  ઈચ્છાઓ  વિશે,  મુશ્કેલીઓ  વિશે. બંધ  કરો  વિચારવાનું.  પેપર  અને  પેન પકડો.  પકડો!  અત્યારે  જ.  લખો. તમારી  ઈચ્છા  ભવિશ્ય  માટે,  મુશ્કેલીઓ અત્યારની  અને  પછી  દરેક  ઇચ્છા. પાછલ 'કેમ?'  સવાલ  લગાડો.  જવાબ  મલ્યો? તેની  પાછલ  પણ  "કેમ?"  સવાલ  લગાડો.  લગાડો... છેક  છેલ્લો  જવાબ  આ  મલવો  જોઇએ  "ખુશી  માટે".  જો  આ  જવાબ  નથી  તો  તે   ઈચ્છા  નથી.  કાં  તો  તે  જરૂરીયાત  છે,  કાં  તો  મજબુરી  અથવા  તો  તે  બીજા  દ્વારા ભરમાઈ  જવાથી  થયેલ  ઈચ્છા  છે. મુશ્કેલીઓ  જુવો  હવે.  કેટલીક  એવી  છે જેનુ  કંઈ  નહિ  થાય.  તેને  સાઈડ  કરો.  કેટલીક  જે  નાના  કીકલા  જેવી  છે  સાઈડ  કરો  એને.  હવે  લાગી  જાઓ. બાકીની  મુશ્કેલીઓ  દૂર  કરવા.  અશક્ય  મુશ્કેલીઓ  તો  એમે  સાઈડ  થઈ  ગઈ  હવે  બાકી  વિશે  વિચારવાનુ  છોડી  લાગી  જાઓ  એને  દૂર  કરવાના  કામમાં. ઘણી  મુશ્કેલી  દૂર  કરવા  કંઈ  કરવાનુ  હોતુ  નથી  બસ  વિચાર  કરવાનુ  છોડી  એને  ભુલવાનુ  હોય  છે  તો  કેટલીક  વખત  જરા અલગ  રીતે  વાત  સમજવાની  હોય  છે  પણ  બાકી  સમયે  તો  તે  દ

One beautiful event in which one musician met a normal man and in their conversion the man say I also love music. Listening that musician ask naturally, Really ! Then what type of instrument do you play? And suddenly normal guy say that he is talking about how he enjoy it listening and he don't know playing any instrument. Musician after getting that say that then you say 'I like listening music'. Here the small difference can be big one. The situation like this happen to us and more to students. As they start to enjoy watching or listening something they think they will to do that, too. But to watch a movie and to make it, to like acting and doing it is far more different than each other. One you like and other you may not. We all love to use smart phones and different apps in it and get interest in making an app but as soon as we start we can got bored. Choosing wrong career have this also as one of the reason for it. Especially when student independently decide that.

Sometimes kitchen can be the best holiday or vacation spot for us. I am not talking about our regular kitchen but another type of kitchen. The kitchen having garden or like that in front of its window, the most of equipment made of wood, stone or metal but which are not looking like modern equipment as if it is 50 years before kitchen. Where you are alone or with your best friend which can be your mom, too. You are making a dish without any worry of mistakes OR hurry of you will be late. There is your favourite song or any light cool music being played in background. And you are in peace of that ,not thinking about outer real world, cooking any dish in your own fun. What do you say? Want to try this Sunday? Then do it. And don't worry if you don't have kitchen as described above or you don't like cooking because you can do book reading, writing, painting or any other thing but one condition us must that you have your peace where no one can disturb you even if they ar

The first story in the world was "Told", Second one was may be "Read" & Third and last one is "Seen+Listen". We all know about this even if we ignore it regularly but that " STORY " the telling for which this all paper (in which story is written and read from), radios (from where many stories were told and listened), TVs & Internet (where we daily watch and listen also sometimes read stories) are invented is lost . It is weird that we rarely find a very good story which we want to read, watch or listen again and again. We find so much information and nonsense things but not a beautiful story . That's why may be many people working in TV or other media industry is struggling as they can't able to find the perfect story wanted by audiences/people. Me and many other writers are also struggling to find out best stories. We are able to see some beautiful stories but it is few if we compare the total content given by all med

What should be free? I think health and education sector should be free for all. Then and then only we can have beautiful world as we want. Any society, state or country can grow only in that environment where all people have equal right on education and health-care services. It is need which is equal to food, clothes and home. May be we should build more school a & hospitals than shopping malls, clubs, different sport's ground and may be temples, too. When we preserve the past and nurture the future than only we will live happily in present . We never should forget that we also wanted exciting and enjoyable education when we were kids and we will need love and care whenever will get old and ill. Remember when you got ill. How did you feel? Don't you wanted to have someone near you to love and care about you and treat you well to make you well from ill. May be as I think, you think and all people start understanding this fact. And now only few schools

15 years old boy playing game in his mobile when her 1 year old sister called her mom as she wanted her nose to be cleaned. The boy asked her mom to give him handkerchief so that he can clean her sister nose. She was in kitchen making dinner. She came with a handkerchief and cleaned the girl's nose telling boy, "If I had to come to give handkerchief why should I not also clean the nose" Boy still having his eyes in mobile phone said, "But I asked you handkerchief so that I can clean her nose" Mom went to kitchen and boy again  without listening or thinking continued his game.